Have you ever wondered why we want the people we cant have and that we have the people that we really dont want? I really like this guy NOW and i come to find out that my chance has come and passed. Okay he used to really like me but i wasnt ready for a relashionship with him and i didnt really like him that mmuch then well i kinda did but i was scared to go further with him and of course when he asked me out i said no BIG MISTAKE, and now that he doesnt like me that much anymore i really really like him and i just dont know how im gonna get over him i really want to but for some reason i just CANT i used to think it would be easy to just STOP liking someone but i've come to find out that its not that easy, you cant just make your life come to a halt and stop loving someone ( can you ? ) Well i dont know truthfully i dont think i ever will but somehow it will work its way out i hope! ( advise please )