Have you ever had one of those moments where you thought to yourself, "Oh.  That's why my parents got divorced"?

(Obviously this doesn't apply to those of you whose parents have never gotten divorced.  If your parents haven't ever been divorced and it still applies to you, you must have been confused at the time.)

Have you ever had an additional follow-up thought along the lines of, "Oh dear god, what if I'm like that?"

Not a pleasant thought train.  And even when the parent apologizes, it doesn't seem to make anything better.  But scrubbing dishes helps.