Don't know you but I am just saying.... I think it is kinda silly to say you are not going to date (unless you are just comming out of a relationship or so)...although there is nothing wrong with it. I did that for awhile....I strongly believe that dating leads to marriage. That is why you should date someone to see if you could marry them so if you dely your dating then you would dely finding the right person...No I don't think that if you date someone that means you would marry them...No I don't think that you should pick certain people who you think you would marry and only date them. Dating is to see if you could last with them, not if you will; although I do not believe in dating as in hey lets date because you are hot, oh wait this chick is hotter and I can do her. I hate that. I don't believe there is one right person for everyone because if that was so then not many people are going to end up with the right person because no one is perfect (well htere was this one guy but we killed him) so people would end up with a bunch of differant people. So that would just not work. Love takes work. If you choose not to work then you choose not to love. Love is deeper than skin; therefore I don't believe in love at first sight. But does that mean marrying someone is just who you can tolerate for the rest of your life? Shoot I don't know but I plan on only marrying someone who I can tolerate. But then how do you know when you meet that person? Like I said before it takes work. Expect to work for relationships...I think. because if being with one person forever was so dang easy there would not be so many divorces. I think it is the people who are lazy and don't want to work are the ones left a lone or bailing 2 or 12 years into it. Or maybe something happend. But I think that if you love that person then things will wade out because the truth is "The couples who are truly right for eachother wade through the same crap as everybody else but they don't let it take them down and if they are real lucky someone will say something."  yes yes from scrubs but it is still true. I hope that all of you who made it this far have learned something, if nothing else that I am a rambling idiot. Or maybe you heard just what you need to.