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Relationship Status
Single
Interests
God, mime, family, friends, hanging with friends, goofing off : P, riding horses, writing (but, nobody will ever see it)
Favorite Music
Pillar, Skillet, Chris Tomlin, P.O.D, Zoegirl, Josh Turner, Plumb, Rascal Flatts, Carrie Underwood, The Fray, Seventh Day Slumber
Favorite Movies
One night with the king, Over the Hedge, Cars
Favorite Books
The BIBLE Hedge of Thorns, Giant Killer
Because of Austin....
October 04 2007
Yes, Austin you are a inspiration for this post. : )
The question of what a good reason for breaking up would be. Here it goes.
Is saying that you don't love that person anymore a reason to break up?
I don't think so. Love isn't just a feeling but an action. Love is sacrificing and not always having things going in easy but sticking with it anyway. How can you honestly say that you don't love someone when you have been telling them that you did for so long? You can't. Unless, you didn't really love them in the first place. Oh yeah, you most likely were attracted to that person but you got tired of them and so you somehow think that is a valid reason for turning around and being a jerk (yes, I said jerk) to them. Somehow, their beautiy or handsomeness starts fading and you don't think that they are attractive or they aren't a challenge anymore. You don't have to try to get them to go out with you anymore and you find someone else who is is a challenge. Some else who will play the game with you. And yes, it is a game. ( I have a feeling this isn't going to make people happy)
The other question, Is saying that you don't like someone a reason to break up with someone?
No, because you shouldn't have ever gotten into a relationship with them in the first place!!! What are you basing your relationship on? Are you basing it on how they look or what their personality? If you are, your stupid (yes, I mean that too). You should be looking at their character and their beliefs. And if you got into the relationship without first looking at these things, then you are abviously to immature to be in a relationship. If you don't like someone after a couple of months then why in the world would tell them that you loved them? Because, in all of these kind of relationships you do say that you love that person.
Well, I need to go so it's not really wrapped up all that much, but this will have to do.