Back to Real Life

November 08 2005
So the honeymoon is over and we've started back to working and all the things that happen with "life".  Its kind of a sad thing when you realize that one chapter of your life is over. We had so much fun with our engangement and all the wedding festivities - now is on to married life. Which, has turned out to be quite an adventure as well. We're still learning to live with each other and learning more about each other every day. Its a great thing! Josh's teaching has slowed down a bit, especially when he realized it was almost Thanksgiving and then after Thanksgiving, it wasnt much longer til Christmas break. He's done with Cross Country, which means that he can get home earlier in the afternoon now and we can spend a little more time together. My job is still going well though at times I hate it and I want a normal job, with normal hours. The whole working nights thing is still rough hon my body - I really never know what day or time it is. There's no routine in my life.
 We have been able to start going to a small group at the church we go tto here. It was really nice last week, we got to hang out with people our age and feel like we actually have some friends our here. God has definately been teaching me alot about leaning on Him for companionship and for His friendship. Most of the time its just me and Josh and that is much different for us than when we lived in Murfreesboro and seems we always had something to do or someone to hang out with. So this has been a big adjustment for us. And then there's Christmas - oh, I wont say too much cuase I might start crying - at the thought that I wont be home for Christmas this year witth my family. I'm workign five straight nights from christmas eve on. Josh will be here alone and that makes me sad. And it makes me sad that  I wont get to see my family this year. Okay, I'm done. Well, I just wanted to post a little update on how the Carrolls are - so we're great and would love to hear from you! Keep in touch.

Stephanie and Josh

trumpetjaz

November 08 2005
glad you've got a church and some friends already, thats awesome! i know the feeling about working nights....i feel guilty all the time that i don't get to spend time w/those i love. sorry bout Christmas, too...maybe family can go visit you?

Amber

November 08 2005
hey!! i totally know what you mean about the whole christmas thing! I'll be in thailand for christmas, and if i remember right..they don't celebrate christmas! so yea...it'll be weird, but good! i'm glad things are rolling along for ya'll! i'm so excited for married life! but i'm sure it is weird that the whole "i'm getting married!" stage is weird, and sad in a way!! But next chapter...in a few years.....BABIES!!! lol! then i could be aunt amber! lol!! jk!!! i love ya'll so so much! congrats again! take care, and stay strong!

Sarah

November 22 2005
hey steph! i got your message and i am sorry i haven't called. i have been sooo busy i can't even explain it but i haven't forgotten about you. as soon as i get a chance i will call you! i love you and i want to be able to catch up. hope everything is going well. i wish you were here so much! I need my steph talks.(frowning) haha. well i will talk to you soon

Sarah

November 22 2005
hey steph! i got your message and i am sorry i haven't called. i have been sooo busy i can't even explain it but i haven't forgotten about you. as soon as i get a chance i will call you! i love you and i want to be able to catch up. hope everything is going well. i wish you were here so much! I need my steph talks.(frowning) haha. well i will talk to you soon