why is it that after you haven't had something in a really long time that you begin to wonder if you are ever to have it at all?

what i mean is i haven't had a man in my life in a very long time i mean like since my junior year of high school and for a while i was okay with that. i realized for a while that i didn't need a man in my life and i didn't the distraction.

but now i find that, that very thing might be the thing i am missing.

why is it that your best thoughts come when you least expect them to?

like when you are in a conversation with a friend or you are by yourself doing homework.

why is it that in this society today you have to be blonde and skinny to be loved by others?(not a reference to anyone)

answer these questions for me!