Kaylei
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Highschool
Riverdale High School
College
Lipscomb University
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God, friends, family, music, singing, reading, writing, journaling, ballet, children, animals, horseback riding, musicals, flowers, nature, life
Favorite Music
Josh Groban, Enya, Evanscence, Coldplay, Nickel Creek, Casting Crowns, Bethany Dillon, Jack Johnson, Faith Hill, Barlow Girls, classical, light rock, and more
I Love You
July 26 2005
...such a strong phrase and yet such a phrase that people take lightly nowadays. I've been thinking about this all lately and how nonchalantly people will tell their boyfriend or girlfriend they love them right away without truly thinking things out. I think especially that people my age and below are rushing into saying this phrase to their newest fling too soon. They have no idea that the relationship is guaranteed to work and they risk having heartbreak by just saying those few little words.
Now I'm not saying that saying "I love you" to a good friend or fellow Christian is wrong, but when it comes to relationships I'd say people need to be careful and really think about what they are saying. Girls especially need to be careful of when we say "I love you" to our boyfriends. We as girls are emotional and sometimes those emotions get the best of us. I mean what if a girl says they love their boyfriend and then the boyfriend drops them for the next pretty girl out there? That will leave the girl crushed and heartbroken. I'm not saying that guys don't have any feelings, but we as girls are more emotional when it comes to things like this.
well, that's just something I've been thinking about and was brought to my attention this week.
Now I'm not saying that saying "I love you" to a good friend or fellow Christian is wrong, but when it comes to relationships I'd say people need to be careful and really think about what they are saying. Girls especially need to be careful of when we say "I love you" to our boyfriends. We as girls are emotional and sometimes those emotions get the best of us. I mean what if a girl says they love their boyfriend and then the boyfriend drops them for the next pretty girl out there? That will leave the girl crushed and heartbroken. I'm not saying that guys don't have any feelings, but we as girls are more emotional when it comes to things like this.
well, that's just something I've been thinking about and was brought to my attention this week.
♥somewhere in the memories.♥
August 04 2005
just randomly found your phusebox. and i agree. i have been guilty of saying i love you to a guy to soon and being hurt really bad by it. but. the guy i am with now. we truly, have a bond that is incredible. and i love him. very much. so yea. i agree. be careful. cause it hurts when he breaks your heart and he thought he loved you.
just a random thought
♥
cortney
Katherine♥
August 06 2005
thanks for the advice!! and yea..thats all true up there. Sometimes being careful with that phrase isnt enough. I know that this time around....I waited a good 6 months. But I liked him for haha..prolly a year. Im pretty sure I was ready..but yea people definitely just take that phrase lightly. And you shouldnt.