So I just wanna know.

July 13 2008
PLEASE ANSWER.

I honestly wanna know what you guys...and girls have to say. So please answer these questions if you have time.

1. What do you think love is?

2. Is it an emotion? or a choice?

3. Does it end?

4. If you are really in love does that mean that you should get married?

5. Does God have one "right" person for everyone? and if so is that the person you are to marry?

Please give reasons for all of your answers, oh a remark is a great way to share your opinion but a message will do great as well and if you do message me I will not say your name or that you messaged me if desired.  

a_shining_star

July 14 2008
Alright so I'm going to try and fit this all in one remark. I think love is more than an emotion. I believe that it is a choice. I think that when you love someone it is a choice not just some emotion that you feel. Yes, I think that you do have feelings for that person but it is more than that. It's a choice to say that I'm willing to lay down my life for you. No matter what,I'm going to stick by you, not just when it's good but when it's bad too. That isn't a emotion. That is a choice. Jesus showed His love for us by being willing to say that He would go to the grave and back for us. That is a choice. Jesus chose to do that. I don't think that when you truly love some that it does end. How can you say that you love someone and then a few months later say that you don't? You really didn't love them in the first place. I think that when people get familiar with each other they think that just because things get hard that it's okay not to continue to strengthen their love for one another. I'm going to skip to number 5 then go back to number 4. I do think that God does have someone that each of us are suppose to marry. I think though, that we can mess that up. But, I also believe that God gives us second chances. I think when we allow God to have control in that area He will bring the right person into our path. I think that when we let go of what we desire and of who we think we should marry then God can truly bring the person of our dreams. We all have a standard but I think we sometimes let our wills get in the way of that. And we let our standards slide instead of keeping those standards high and according to God's standards. Ok, last one. I believe that when you are in love with someone that yes you should get married. I believe that there is an appropriate time too. Like if you are in love but you can't support the girl then you should wait until you can. I believe that the man should be spiritually, emotionally, and financially ready before they get married. You don't have to be perfect but you have to at least have some way of supporting her and guiding her.

Jacob Wuertz

July 14 2008
1. A process of finding yourself via someone else 2. Trick Question! It's a spirit. Look it up. 3. No 4. No 5. Yes, but you have to trust and believe that god will bring them to you.

Kaelynn Malugin

July 14 2008
Well I think Love is a spiritual bondage in between two people who share a great passion for each other. And if it's truly Love it will never end. And if you know it's genuine and true you should definately join in the bondage of marrige. God has the perfect mate for you. The reason I believe this, where I use to go in Ashland City there's a nursing home. This couple and they were quite elderly and they always would tell me the same thing every time I came in "God is Love" and "God made us for each other" and they were married for 57 years. As far as I know they're still living and still together.

At the Crossroads of Life

July 16 2008
Honestly, I don't know what love is, but I think it's a choice, and in a sense based off emotions. Emotions can be spur of the moment. Love grows over time; something started by a decision to stand by someone. True love can last forever. The marriage part? Well, marriage isn't for everyone I suppose. I personally would want to get married if I ever found my true love. I think that there could be someone for everyone, but it's all a matter of finding that person. *great topic, by the way*

.savannah[<3.]

July 18 2008
1 & 2. well i think that love is not only an emotion and a choice, but a commitment. something i absolutly hate is when you tell someone you love them but dont really mean it and 2 weeks later you love someone else. i dont believe in love at first sight. yes...maybe you can see someone and like their personality and so on which would lead to getting to know them and possible love. but not the first time you see them. i think that it is and is not a choice...well i really dont know. but it is something that you need to be sure about no 'IFIE' feelings. you do or you dont. 3. does love end...well...i guess you eventually havta move o if things dont work out. you cant live in pain forever

.savannah[<3.]

July 30 2008
okayy to finish my remark.....i think that you dont stop loving someone if you were TRULY in love...you simply learn to live without them. 4. if you are really in love you should consider marraige. but you should not jump right into it, you should ya know see how you handle situations together......so on and so forth. but dont assume you can get married just because you are 'in love'. 5. i have no idea...i think that there is someone for everyone but that doesnt mean that their lives would even cross....but they would be right. and no...you make mistakes in life so you could very well not end up with the one your meant to be with. idk just puttin it out there upon request of a good friend that i miss...