Someone explain something to me. Why do people always say to be yourself? Ever since you are little adults and your peers tell you to be yourself because that is all anyone wants you to be. Then why do people point out your faults and tells you to change them? For instance, people tell me to be more confident in myself, not to share so much, not to be so up and down with emotions, etc. Why are you telling me to change and also telling me to be myself? Can everyone stop being damn hypoctrites???