Note: Many people who know me know that I have a negative view on relationships (sometimes with good reason) but this is just something I have noticed....Names omitted to protect whoever is involved.

So, I realized that there is always that one person who you continually tell yourself that you would never date, it would never work out, that you are just better off friends.  Yet, people on the outside keep telling you that you should go for it.  Well, it seems that this person is the one that you always turn back around to everything something goes wrong.  You quit talking to them, but they are there to take you out when you have been screwed by someone else, and the same works in reverse.  No matter how many bad relationships you have, it seems like you always know when to call this person, or they just call you because things don't seem right.  You can never be mad at this person for a long time, but at the same time, you never want to read too much in to the things that go on between you, because chances are that you have over analyzed it and you are just driving down that road where you think things are great, so, clinging to a false hope, you end up breaking your own heart and then blaming that person, yet you will eventually go back to them again and again and you don't know why...for once this is not the negative going back but it is positive.  You look at yourself and say maybe this is the person, but you have been hurt too many times and the things that were said to you by that person and what you said were influenced by an outside source and you just don't want to ruin what you got, you are simply complacent with what you have, maybe you don't want to move forward, you are afraid of what will happen.  Yet, life is all about taking chances, many times you will get hurt, but there is that one time where it works out and you can scream to the world that you have finally found the person you didn't know you were looking for.  That is my view, and chances are, I am wrong....