I  read an article in Child magazine last week about a mom who has to make sure she reminds herself often to slow down and live life.  I feel like I miss alot.  I am constantly telling Addie to hold on just a minute.  But we aren't guaranteed just one more minute.  I get so preoccupied with making dinner, folding laundry,what I want to buy for my house, what is on TV or checking my email.  By saying "just a minute" or "we will do that tomorrow" I am cheating my family out of precious time that we can't get back. I should cherish those moments like bathing Addison and putting warm pj's on her, or brushing her hair.  You never know when the last time you talk to someone could be the last thing you ever say to them.  I try not to think of the bad things that can happen in life.  But today I am sad because I have been taking the little things for granted.  I am so sad because it took the death of a friend that I just assumed would still be there on Monday to remind me that I am moving way too fast to enjoy my life.