He's H.O.T, She's H.O.T.: What to Look For in the Opposite Sex

**The Three Things Everyone in this Room is Looking For:

1. Acceptance- The desire of every person's heart is to have secure, meaningful, enduring relationships that are based on trust and mutual acceptance.

2. Approval- Having success and worth in the eyes of others.

- The place where this begins is at home particularly with your father.  For better or for worse, your father's ability to express unconditional approval of you is fundamental well being.

- If your home life has left you with an unmet need, you MAY find yourself expressing bitterness or rebellion... OR you may be shopping around for another source of approval.

*You must find these before you seek them from a guy/girl.*

~There are too many people who try to find their identity, security, and self worth in being "hooked up" with someone.

Adam was "very good" by himself.  What was not good that he was alone.

Can you see yourself as very good without someone in your life?

Before God says, "I have *insert person's name* for you," He says, "I have ME for you."

Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires if your heart.  Psalm 37:4

Seek HIM first.